Even if you've never had a "friend" cross you, read this post because her writing it so poetic. It's a lovely lovely thing to be able to write of such heartache in words that are so beautiful to read that it takes you aback before you realize what they're saying.
"Never doubt that there are words that can cut
right through stone...There are sisters who will carry you and sisters
who will bend with you and pray with you and sisters who help heave the
stones off...And how I’ve made wide berths around women and skirted
friendship because I didn’t trust and your heart can stay blue bruised
for years." http://www.aholyexperience.com/2013/05/the-ultimate-girlfriend-gift/